They met in 2017 over a cellphone dialog. She was then working at a name centre. They met just a few occasions and in January 2019 started a sexual relationship. She now says it was compelled and he had threatened her. In September she filed a police grievance accusing him of rape. He filed a petition within the Delhi excessive court docket to have the grievance quashed. Nope, mentioned the court docket. He got here to the Supreme Courtroom.

This week, a two-judge bench of justices BV Nagarathna and N Kotiswar Singh dominated {that a} consensual relationship which doesn’t finish in marriage can’t be given a felony color. It ordered the police grievance to be quashed.
In October, one other two-judge Supreme Courtroom bench quashed felony proceedings in opposition to a person accused of raping a lady and impregnating her on the ‘pretext of marriage’. Justices CT Ravikumar and Rajesh Bindal mentioned there was a historical past of consensual intercourse and the couple had even lived collectively. They may not categorise the connection as rape.
Intercourse, even when consensual, based mostly on a false promise to marry is an offence beneath part 69 of the Bharatiya Nyaya Sanhita. So if a person persuades a lady to have intercourse with him by promising to marry her however has no intention of fulfilling that promise, by legislation that’s rape. If convicted he will be despatched to jail for as much as 10 years.
A 2013 examine of rape trials in Delhi’s district courts discovered that one in 4 got here beneath the class of “false promise to marry”.
Patriarchal assumptions

Consent is central to the definition of rape. Did she consent by phrase or gesture? Equally, how consent is obtained is vital. If she was drunk or drugged; if she was threatened, blackmailed or coerced; if she was promised a job or promotion, can that actually be thought of consent?
Clearly not. What a couple of promise of marriage, one which the person has no intention of holding?
“False promise to marry” makes a number of assumptions about ladies’s company and place in society. First it assumes {that a} ‘good’ girl won’t ever consent to a sexual relationship exterior the bounds of marriage, or on the very least the promise of 1. Second, it’s offensive in its assumption that each one ladies who’ve intercourse exterior of marriage are gullible innocents who should be protected by the state by means of laws And third, there may be the belief {that a} girl who has intercourse with a person aside from her husband, or meant husband, is ruined for all times.

These patriarchal and, frankly, out-of-date assumptions make a false distinction between good ladies and unhealthy ones the place the unhealthy ones are these with sexual need. It’s blind to the sexual autonomy of grownup ladies in making selections, even ill-judged ones. Sadly, rape adjudication is affected by judicial pronouncements and moralising sermons on the ‘unhealthy’ girl who’s impartial and owns her sexual historical past.
Problems of caste
It’s not simply patriarchy. Underlying the ‘false promise to marry’ argument is the query of intent. In any case, folks change their thoughts on a regular basis and that in itself can’t be a felony offence. So, judges should weigh in to see if the promise of marriage made earlier than intercourse was real or whether or not it was only a ruse for intercourse?
To do that, judges are inclined to fall again on social stereotypes about caste, gender and sexual historical past.
In a 2003 Supreme Courtroom judgment, Uday v State of Karnataka, Uday was interesting in opposition to a excessive court docket judgement that discovered him responsible of rape. The case in opposition to him was filed by a lady who mentioned she had agreed to a sexual relationship solely as a result of she was in love with him and he had promised to marry her. When she obtained pregnant, he stored discovering excuses—his home was being constructed, he would certainly marry her at some later stage and so forth. After the infant was born when there was nonetheless no marriage, she lodged a police grievance.
The girl got here from the Goundar group, listed as OBC (different backward caste) in Tamil Nadu. The person was Brahmin. The girl was conscious of the “penalties of the act, notably when she was acutely aware of the truth that their marriage could not happen in any respect on account of caste issues,” the judgment famous. “She freely, voluntarily, and consciously consented to having sexual activity.” There was no rape, the judges mentioned.

The Uday judgment invoking caste disparity as a professional cause to not marry grew to become a kind of template for additional judgements and “allowed courts to make use of social constructions of age, gender, caste and social standing to find out intention,” says PhD scholar Surbhi Karwa. In an opinion piece, Nikita Sonawane of the Legal Justice and Police Accountability Undertaking writes, “In its recognition of caste as a professional barrier to marriage, the court docket appears to recommend that girls who fail to stick to caste hierarchies should pay the worth for it.”
In a really actual sense, a legislation that ostensibly protects victims from unscrupulous males blames a few of these victims for not understanding higher.
Had been you not conscious of caste issues?
You’re divorced, how might you imagine his promise to marry?
The issue, says Karwa, “false promise to marry” is inherently obscure. And courts now make a distinction between conditions the place there was by no means any intention to marry and the place there was unique intent that modified due to circumstances.
In Pramod Suryabhan Pawar, the Supreme Courtroom advised the Dalit sufferer that regardless of being conscious of social obstacles she continued a relationship along with her dominant caste lover. He had promised to marry her after which stored discovering excuses—marriage of elder sister, marriage of youthful sister—and ultimately married one other girl.
“On account of circumstances which he couldn’t have foreseen, or which had been past his management, was unable to marry her, regardless of having each intention to take action,” dominated the court docket as if the actual fact of their castes got here as new improvement to the connection.
The person was acquitted.
[Read more: In Behanbox, Surbhi Karwa on the reliance of caste and gender stereotypes in adjudicating rape case on the “false promise to marry.]
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